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    Jan 14, 2012, 04:50 AM
    Why does my Dad have problems with me?
    Its been like this for a long time now, my dad finds it hard to speak to me or when he does its always in a nasty tone of voice and things just to have a dig at me.

    Its like I cannot do right for wrong? I don't do anything to annoy him or even ask him for anything he's just always horrible tome about the way I dress, the people I talk to the boyfriends and just basically my life! I am in college doing a course and he always wants me to quit, he never lets me do anything or even if I say I am going somewhere its always bad and about sex?

    He always tries to humiliate me in front of people and I sometimes I just don't know what to do or think and his girlfriend is just as bad she tries to make my life a misery... she ignores me and calls me names to my brothers and sisters... I really don't understand... Is anyone else having problems like this with family members?
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    Jan 14, 2012, 06:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by frankplank View Post
    Its like I cannot do right for wrong? I don't do anything to annoy him or even ask him for anything he's just always horrible tome about the way I dress, the people I talk to the boyfriends and just basically my life! I am in college doing a course and he always wants me to quit, he never lets me do anything or even if I say I am going somewhere its always bad and about sex?

    Perhaps he disapproves about the multiple piercings you've posted about.

    I am a little baffled by "its always bad and about sex" when you have posted about your relationship with your boyfriend, his "relationshiip" with porn and your experiences with anal sex.

    Maybe now that you're in college it's time for you to go out on your own and stop living with your Dad. It undoubtedly will remove a lot of the tension.

    Have you ASKED him why he treats you in this fashion?
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    Jan 14, 2012, 07:30 AM
    I haven't got them anymore, children go through phases of piercings and different hair colours but that doesn't mean to say treat your daughter like a piece of crap. Well when I say its bad and always about sex my dad always thinks I am going to do something wrong or go and sleep with the postman or something.

    Yes I have posted about that, but doesn't mean I have conversations with my own dad about how I have anal sex and issues with my boyfriend... yes true I want to move out but not a lot of money and job wise well I live in a little village and I am not about give up 2 years of work to find a job that will only pay a small amount.

    Yes I have asked but he just rampages on about stuff that doesn't even make sense... but thanks your input (:
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    Jan 14, 2012, 07:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by frankplank View Post
    he just rampages on about stuff that doesnt even make sense....
    Please name two things he "rampages" about.
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    Jan 14, 2012, 07:26 PM
    You live with your boyfriend, you don't have to put up with him when he is on his rag.
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    Jan 15, 2012, 08:44 AM
    I'm confused - on another thread also posted 1/13/12 (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...rn-627395.html) you say that you live with your boyfriend ("But Yes I do live with him...")

    On the thread you are posting now you say "yes true I want to move out," referring to your father.

    Which is it?

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