[mummyandmelody]

My mother moved away from the town I grew up in and loved and so to be close as I was pregnant I moved to the same village 16 months down the line I hate it I have been with my partner for 10 months and he works in the town I grew up in and spends 70 a week diesel and he only gets 100 and he pays 10 for backy and 20 for his insurance every week so he has no money to himself my daughter was born with her left hand with no fingers and her right foot with no toes but we both agrfee if we move back to the city we will be more stabel with money and support me and my ,mum don't see eye to eye all the time we argue and fight a lot we can go months witthout talking but I can't help feel I am going to lose my mum over telling her I plan to move she puts the guilt trip on and makes me feel bad and changes my mind what shall I do I love my fiancŽe and he is an amazing daddy to my daughter but we can't carry on like this I have no job or anything up in this villiage to stay for I only have my mum in the villiage if I move back to the city I have friends and my partners family helpppp what would you do or how would you break the advice to a parent who gets inside uour head so much she will make you change uour mind x

[smoothy]

There is no simple answer. Either way has consequences. You can tell your mom, but you can't make her like it. You have to decide which is more imporatant for you.

I assume you are an adult. And adults have to make choices like this all the time... and they all have to live with any problems it causes.

[mummyandmelody]

Yes I'm 19 but I do want to move but I mention it to my mum and she makes think I'm being selfish that I'm only thinking about me not my sister or 2 brothers or her in which case I'm not as I'm thinking about what's best for me and my family amm I doing the wright thing me and my artner are trying for another baby sooo its so hard qam I taking my dAUGHTER AWAY FROM A GOOD LIFE AND BEING SELFISH AND RUINING HER LIFE OR AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING to better us as xx