[smyth]

Yes, I think its almost 2 months that we had sex everyday. . Is it safe? I haven't had my period. My last period was at nov. 9 and it stopped at 16 . And when we had sex he always enter his sperm inside my vag. But, I don't have feel any nausea or pregnancy symptoms. . But my breast sometimes hurts, and my loins hurts like hell too. . I took a PT but its negative.

[JudyKayTee]

I don't know what you mean by "is it safe?" Is it safe to have unprotected sex every day?

Is it safe to have sex every day?

Something else?

If your period is almost three months late, yes, take another HPT and/or consult with a Physician.

[Kahani Punjab]

Smyth,

Firstly, welcome to this great site!

Till PT is negative, you have nothing to worry about. Just take care of the periods, (about which you must have knowledge as to how to avoid pregnancy) and there are ways to hush it up, at very early stage, if you do not want a child, which you will surely not want, if you are not wedded.

Else, sex is safe if you are not facing much of the physical pain. But, you must consult a medico or gynocologist, if you are suffering from any such pain. Enjoy the sex. Do you keep the pubes shaved? Does your partners shaves his pubes or does he have long/untrimmed pubes i.e. the hair around his sexual organ, also called penis?

[Cat1864]

smyth, home pregnancy tests are not always accurate. I have a friend who was four months pregnant before a pregnancy test came up positive. Pregnancy symptoms vary from pregnancy to pregnancy. Sore breasts and hurting loins can be symptoms. Not every pregnancy results in 'morning sickness' and in some cases it can hit later in the pregnancy.

To be blunt, having unprotected sex and not even using the 'pull-out' method is trying to get pregnant. Are you wanting to become pregnant?

I suggest seeing a doctor and if you aren't pregnant, getting on birth control so that there is less of a chance of pregnancy before you are ready to be a parent.

By the way, how old are you and your boyfriend and how long have you been dating?

[Synnen]

How old are you both?

[Fr_Chuck]

Make sure you use the very first urine of the morning for the test. Latter urine will not always give you a correct reading.

Also there can be infections, there can be STD and other things.

Having sex will not cause you harm, but it will cause you to get preganant.

[smoothy]

Is she 12? Even Most ten year old's know doing what she did usually results in a pregnancy. And having sex ALWAYS results in a risk of pregnancy, no matter how many precautions you take. As well as exposing you to any and all diseases you partner might have.

[smyth]

Im 22 and my boyfriend is 25. . We're planning to have a baby. . We wanted to have one. . But I'm afraid I might not get pregnant. . Cause we've attempt it for many times, but still I get my period. . We've been dating for a year and 3 months now. .

[JudyKayTee]

I still don't know what you mean by "is it safe"? Is WHAT safe?

You are either having safe/protected sex - or you are not.

Which is it?

[smyth]

I'm having unprotected sex. . And we had sex for almost everyday. . And every time we had sex, he enters his sperms inside

[JudyKayTee]

I get the unprotected sex and ejaculating and all of that - what does SAFE mean?

[smoothy]

Exactly... she asked more than once is it "Safe". What does she mean by that exactly. I think English might not be her first language based on how she phrased her last response in #10 so its possible she is using a word incorrectly by accident without knowing she is.

[Synnen]

It takes the AVERAGE couple a year to get pregnant. If you have been ACTIVELY trying to conceive for more than a year, you should see a doctor.

ACTIVELY Trying to conceive means that you are tracking your ovulation, having sex before you ovulate each month, are taking prenatal vitamins, and are practicing good health in all other ways (no drinking, smoking, etc).

If you have not ACTIVELY tried to conceive by tracking ovulation etc, then you need to start doing so. If you are unsure how to do so, you should see your OB/Gyn. If nothing else, your doctor can put you on prenatal vitamins that can help with your child's health right from conception.

Out of curiosity--why not get MARRIED before actively TRYING to have a baby? Is there something wrong with a legal commitment to each other before having a biological connection for the rest of your lives?

[JudyKayTee]

Out of curiosity--why not get MARRIED before actively TRYING to have a baby? Is there something wrong with a legal commitment to each other before having a biological connection for the rest of your lives?

Someone had to say it and I'm glad you did. I never know where the line between advice and preaching is.

Aside from commitment - who is going to support the child? Taxpayers? The parents? Who is going to raise the child? The parents? The grandparents? Someone else.

If the relationship falls apart can the mother support both herself AND a baby - or, for that matter, herself? Or, again, is that the "job" of the taxpayers?

And who is going to pay the medical bills for the mother and the child, to say nothing of the childbirth expenses?

The State? The parents? Someone else?

[CravenMorhead]

Strictly speaking, what you're doing is safe. Maybe take a few more rests, every other day as to not chafe or strain yourself.

Whether it is a smart thing to do. Well I think that has been addressed. Which is to say that you might want to take a step back and consider if this is the best thing right now for you and your boyfriend. I think more thought into this is required. Plan for everything that might go wrong in your relationship. This is a 18+ year thing you're getting yourself into.

Also go to a doctor for a proper pregnancy test. Sometimes the ones bought in stores are... not up to snuff.

[samtherockstar]

If u take protection then it will be safe for you.
And enjoy the moment...

[JudyKayTee]

if u take protection then it will be safe for you.
and enjoy the moment...

There is NO protection that is 100% guaranteed - if you have sex, be prepared to make a decision or have a child. If you have a child be prepared to deal with the other parent for the next 18 or so years.

"Taking protection" (assuming you mean the birth control pill) as opposed to using protection does NOT protect from STDs.