[richbiz84]

Ok so before you guys rie to pieces and tell me how stupid I am please realize---i already know..

So here's the situation, I met a girl through an online dating site she is 28 and I am 26. Her picture (she only showed one) looked decent. So I thought I would push forward..

Well we started talking and found out that we have somet things in common. I'm 6'4" I work as a computer engineer for a department of google labs.. And she is 5'9" and is a computer engineer with dell.. I like tall women she likes tall guys..

We also both enjoy similar movies And sports and other thigs..

Outside of that she is a very nice person..

Now we had been talkig on the phone for about 4 months before we both decided to meet each other and move in with each other..

The move in part came because she was relocating and I was seeking to relocate ironically to the same area due to my job.. so we thought that it would make sense to move in... "economically" speaking!

Well when we finally met up she was nothing like her lone picture carve her out to be.. she had much more weight, very bad teeeth (the front ones have brown stuff), extreme acne (im not judging their as I too just finished accutane)... Her breath is less than kosher.. Ok it isn't that bad but you get the point... and the clothes she wears is embarrassing.. Like I'm literally embarrassed when we go out...

Now this is where the dilema comes into play... She is a very sweet lady.. I don't think she would ever cheat. And she is just nice..

But I don't think she is the one for me... But now that she and I have moved in together I don't know what to do..

I couldve keft as soon as possible, but we had already paid for a month or two of rent, cable, internet, electricity and other moving expenses..

So I am lost as to what I should do... I don't know how to tell her I'm not interested and that I want to go my own way..

Please help...

[slapshot_oi]

Well, unless you're on the lease, you're not bound to this woman. You can and should leave soon.

I think it's safe to say you make enough money to rent a 1-bedroom just for yourself.

Also, I'm certain she already knows how you feel about her—women always do—so she's probably been preparing for this.

Lesson learned.

[Fr_Chuck]

Of course you can help her with a make over, dental work and new clothes.

But got to say you move in with someone you never meet before, you deserve this.

[talaniman]

This is an easy fix, you are room mates, not lovers right? So now you are afraid to be honest huh?

Being honest, and gentle is your way out, and a valuable lesson in how to conduct yourself.