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    Kemar Posts: 3, Reputation: 3
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    Jan 4, 2012, 03:22 PM
    Does she love me?
    I've met this girl a couple of months ago and I think I'm in love with her. I feel great whenever I'm with her, I want to meet her friends, family and pets, I want to "show her off" to my best buds even when she's just wearing sloppy clothes. I love everything about her; the fact we love the same things (like music and series), the fact that she is a little insecure, the fact that she can be loud from time to time and the fact that she is funny and so full of life...

    Fact is; I'm not used to having this feeling and for the first time in my life I feel a little insecure. I mean, what if she doesn't want me to be her boyfriend, that would just destroy my world. Fact is that my friends are all like the previous me (the ******* I was before I met her), so they can't give me any advice. This is why I am here. Can you sweet people please help me figure out whether she loves me or not? Here are a couple things I consider "signs" that she loves me, but I'm afraid I might not be objective enough.

    - She once wrote a note in my course and ended it with "LY!"
    - When I broke up with my previous "girlfriend" she sent me "An end has a start" from editors on spotify.
    - She always answers my texts pretty fast
    - She comes to events and always walks home with me. Even when it's 4am.
    - She asked me to come with her to a gig in a foreign country, another friend of us joined us too though.
    - She once cried because of private reasons and told me her best friend and I are the only 2 people she could tell why (I obviously can't tell you guys why, you understand ;) ).
    - When I told her about my favorite band, she went to the CD-shop and bought their latest album. She listened to it on her way to a friend in another country.
    - I frikkin love her

    Another thing you should now; I only recently broke up with my last "girlfriend". So when I met her, I was in a relationship. I'm not anymore though, no girl can compare to her. Please help me, this is keeping me up all night :(.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jan 4, 2012, 06:49 PM
    Dude, relax and stay cool, calm, and collected, and under control, so you don't get carried away by YOUR feelings.

    Talaniman Rule - Never assume someone else feels the same as you.

    Only time can reveal that to you. But enjoy getting to know her.
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    Jan 5, 2012, 02:36 PM
    Did you ask her out? If she says yes she must like you at least a little . If she does not want you to be her boyfriend, she just wants to be your friend. From what you said she diffidently cares about you and wants you to be happy. I personally think she loves you too.

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