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    sierra_skye Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 4, 2012, 12:33 PM
    I'm fighting with my mom!
    Me and my mother fight all the time. We have a lot of problems because she has moved me away from my friends and family to a way bigger town then what I'm use to. I have tried talking to her about moving back or home schooling me or compromising with me but it's her way all the time. I am so tired of fighting with her I am seriously thinking of just leaving! My question is what can I do to get her to think about me too instead of just my father who is leaving her? Please give me some advice!
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    Jan 4, 2012, 12:43 PM
    First off... this isn't about you... so its time to show a little maturity... we all have to do things we don't like as adults. When you are supporting yourself and paying the bills... you are going to understand what I just said.

    SHe's the adult... she's the parent... you have no say in this.

    You aren't going to like it... but that's life. YOU didn't say how old you are... but its clear you aren't a self supporting adult.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 01:25 PM
    I'm going to be REALLY harsh, even though I understand all about not getting along with mothers. If you can't get it that your mother is facing all sorts of problems because of your father leaving, then you are going to last about 2 days out on your own. You don't have a clue about life, period. I'll bet she is in agony inside and hurting. She moved because she HAD to make some important decisions, including the most important one of all - financial. Sit down with her sometime and ask her if she will tell you what's happening, what the future holds for the 2 of you.
    As for big schools with mean cliques of kids, try to be a little nice and friendly with just one or two of them so that you can have a best friend. You only need one.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 02:15 PM
    Get over it, sorry, but mom has reasons, and you are not being grown to accept it, you are acting to a point as a spoiled brat,

    I will run away if I don't get my way. I bet this is tough on her also, and she could use your support not rebellion.

    So keep up with old friends on Facebook, make new friends and go on with life.

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