[kinnx]

[CENTER]Hello there.

So,My name is Kinn and I moved to Bulgaria a week ago.I'm 13 years old.
Well... here's how it started.

I started playing online games and then I met many people and I fell in love with a guy called Phil... he's 18 and he lives in Germany.
We use X-fire for contacts since long time.
We kept talking each other for like 7 months and he fell in love with me,too.
We're in a relationship... It's all good but... I told him I'm 17,because I thought that he will leave me if he knows I'm only 13.
I sent him my pictures and he still thinks I'm 17...

There's something else.

His mother asked him why he spends a lot of time in front of the computer.
He was confused and stressed and didn't know what to answer,because he knew his mother won't support him about having a girlfriend through the internet.
He and his friend Tim thought about this,and then they told me their plan.
Earlier this summer,Phil went to a vacation to Spain,there he met some girl and had his first kiss,but when he went back to Germany,he forgot about the girl he met in Spain.
His plan was : He'd tell his mother that I was the girl who he met in Spain.

So,his mother will think that we already met in real life...
She believed.

What shall I do?

Shall I tell him about my age?I'm ready to do this,but I'm not sure how he will take it... probably he'll leave me... but I love him so much and I want to stay with him :(


Please Help!

[Fr_Chuck]

You and your friend are basing your entire relationship on several lies.

You should not talk to him any longer unless you tell him the truth and unles he tells his mom the truth.

He is most likely thinking of a relationship in the future that would be much more in a year or two than a 13 year old could have.

[kinnx]

But... is there any chance that we can keep our relationship?

I will tell him the truth and he will tell his mother the truth.

I love him && I don't want to leave him :(

[talaniman]

Tell the truth and see what happens, and I wonder what you have told YOUR own parents about this?

The longer these lies go on, for sure the worse this situation will get. I mean how would you feel if you were lied to?

[kinnx]

I told my parents the truth and everything about him.
They said OK.

I'll tell him the truth as fast as possible tho'...

[nonameplease]

Have you ever met him face-to-face, though? It doesn't seem like you know him at all.