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    Dec 21, 2011, 08:42 PM
    How to make a guy jealous
    Should I send this guy a pic of me and say oops I'm sorry I meant to send that to someone else I was texting a lot of people at the time or text them and say hey boo what's going on. Do you want to come chill with me tonight. Or say hey there slick. Or would all of this be too suspicous.
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    Dec 22, 2011, 01:50 PM
    Is this the same guy?

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ng-617718.html

    Be straight about your intention, you want a meet up say so. Why play a game to get his attention, when you can just ask for it?
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    Dec 22, 2011, 08:13 PM
    Jealousy sucks, don't you know that?
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    Dec 24, 2011, 03:25 AM
    Don't try and make anyone jealous it always backfires completely and you end up looking like an idiot!
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    Jan 2, 2012, 10:22 PM
    OK yeah you guys are right I was just really pissed off. Should I just make myself less available then.
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    Jan 3, 2012, 10:02 AM
    If it's the same guy as in your other post, I would say don't waste your time. That's because mainly what you wrote in that post that he said.

    So is this a different guy or not?
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    Jan 3, 2012, 11:22 PM
    It's the same guy.
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    Jan 3, 2012, 11:37 PM
    Back off before you hurt yourself. I think you can make a better choice for yourself. You have some good solid facts to make a good decision, and plenty of red flags to pay attention too.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 12:13 PM
    Time to put this to rest and find someone who cares about you.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 12:32 PM
    Yeah there is no use in trying anymore. Every guy I meet they make me feel good about myself and then in the end It's all a joke. I give up.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 01:12 PM
    Talaniman Rule - When you stop looking for love, and build a life that makes you happy, then you will attract others who want to share your happiness with you.

    In this way you will enjoy yourself, and not be dependent on just having someone to be happy with yourself. Nor will you get stuck or carried away by intense feelings, or be so lonely that anything will look good.

    You will have fun getting to know people, and keep your heart safe, until you are ready to take a risk that a potential partner deserves your heart, and knows what to do with it. Happy people seldom rush to have someone make them happy, and are healthy, strong, and confident enough to look deeper into a person, and take their time making decisions, and choices, based on facts, and not just feelings.

    The point is TAKE the TIME to be HAPPY with a HEALTHY YOU!!! Now do something good for YOURSELF!!
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    Jan 4, 2012, 01:57 PM
    Thanks =) that was actually the best advice someone has given me.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 02:19 PM
    Talaniman's advice is excellent; learn to love yourself and be happy being y o u,then you will attract the right person.

    Good luck and take care.
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