[pickleweasel91]

I'm sure I'm the first to go through this.. and I've never done this online thing before. I don't even tell friends maybe random opinions would be better I don't know? Anyway.. me and this girl have been really close friends for approximately three and a half years now and I have always been there. Through the thick and thin through and we have many good memories and I admit I love it. I liked her long ago too but soon before I was going to try something some guy asked before me.. worst part is he was my friend but we had no idea so I backed up. Anyway recently these two haven't been so great after two long years and even though I always likes her she never knew till recently. She found out soon after she was telling me she wasn't happy with him and didn't Want to be with him. So we became closer and closer and I never actually considered her like that cause she was my best friend and with a friend of mine( who soon after hated me and we don't talk now ) I was always there... Along the way I knew her so well her mind her actions her words.. everything and slowly but.surely I began falling for her.. well now they break up and we were close and she also admitted she liked me and it was great! No one makes her happy like I do I know... I'm her best friend... And the same with me.. well she says I'm perfect for her. So I try.. and well yea. I begin holding her hand being extra "sweet" and she likes me more and more as well.. so one day when I couldn't wait no more I go to her house and say I'm here cause I don't want to wait anymore and we kiss and I'm happiest of my life. Next day comes around she regrets it.. but still likes me... And still would want to later but she still loves her ex.. now she told me she didn't want him and she should have said stop if she knew this ? I mean I began to show her and tell her I wanted her and she showed she did too. But now... After that its so different... like hardiy talks to me now.. She says she still likes me and I know she does... And me I'm crazy for her... Somewhere along our paths I fell hard for her.. and well I don't know what to do now.. back up cause she seems like she wants that? Be there cause regardless Im her best friend . What do I tell her? Cause this hurts a Hell of a lot hahahaha...

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[mouse4702]

She probably can't even tell you how she feels because she doesn't know herself. Also she probably feels different from day to day, maybe hour to hour. You may have to accept that you will only ever be her friend, but take heart, because boyfriends come and boyfriends go, but friends will always be in the picture. It may help to distance yourself from the situation for a week or so and see if YOUR feelings are any different. It's about what's best for you, after all. Keep busy with other friends and try to get a bit of perspective; being too close to the situation will not result in clear vision. If it's any help, I value my friends much more highly than my boyfriends...