[Lovely33]

I have a serious question about what guys want. I'm only 19, and am curious. If we like a guy, should we just say it out loud, and tell him right then and there? Or do you like the whole game playing thing- act like you don't want it- tease, yata yata. In my opinion games are dumb. But say you like a guy who you've never like been out on a date with, but truly like. What do you do? Especially if he's a hot commodity. How do you land the guy who's a little bolder than you, and attractive to many.

[Lovely33]

Please answer =)

[Fr_Chuck]

Games are great at 12 though 16, you even have your best friend ask their best friend.

As adults we don't need to over do it, but for sure not act like you are not interested,

If you are interested you talk to them and if you want to go out, you can ask him out as easy as he asks you out.

You also are not gong to "catch" everyone you are interested in, sometimes timing is not right, or you are not just what he is looking for.

[circles102]

Well... it really depends on the person, and you have to be carefeull how you throw around the I like yous. It can hurt peoples feelings, and sometimes they can't just "suck it up". Anyway it also depends on the relationship you want. By land do you mean casual, one time kind of thing or meaningful intimacy. If your looking for one night standish thing, then you can say it to a guy and he might respond to you with a I like you too, or a "you know what im not really interested" and if that's the case you shouldn't really care all that much. If your looking for a moe meaningful relationship you should get to know them better before you say it straight up. But in the end yeah you can