[farhaa]

Sir I'm in love with non muslim man he want to bcm a muslim.but he is married and having two children. He is not happy with his first marriage, his wife used to fight him daily and she beats her mother in law also. Daily she asked for divorce.But for the sake of society and name he is not ready to give her divorce but from 7months now she is not fighting and she is not asking from divorce, I think she understand and doubt that her husband is in love with someone. Please tell me what should I do.many times I thought I should move on but the person is very good by nature he is ready to do anythng but not ready to loose me.please show me path.

[Fr_Chuck]

No, he is using you, if he really loved you more than anything, he would divorce his wife,
He wants you to be his mistress and most likely has no desire to become Muslim, my bet that is said because it is what you want to hear. If he wanted to convert he would be doing so now, with or without you.

He is married, so you move on.

[farhaa]

Thank you so much, I spoke him about all this, he said I ll divorce him but takes several years can you wait for this, I'm now 28years old and for me it is not possible to wait more, he said we get marry than in a mean time I apply for divorce,even he said you do something, you came to my house for your rights, even he said filed a case on me so that everything comes in front of my family and they insist me to get marry to you means me. In short, he afraids

[farhaa]

To loose me. Dear this is very clear that he is not using me I hv chkd myself but situation is so worse that I'm not able to solve it.plz reply