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ceecee9191 · Dec 25, 2011, 09:06 PM

I've only had sex 3 times and this is my first time on birth control, well the other day I had sex with my boyfriend and I know its not an STD because we use condoms, But I got up and there was about 3 bright red blood drops the size of quarters on the sheets but I stopped bleeding right when I went to the bathroom. This is the first time it happened. It didn't hurt. What could have happened? 2 days after, my my lower abdominal area felt kind of sore and heavy.

Kahani Punjab · Dec 25, 2011, 10:07 PM

CeeCee9191,

Firstly, welcome to this great site!

Nothing to worry, it is natural. Dear, avoid repeating the posts, as I found this post put twice. It leads to undue repetation, which is violation of site rules, too.

Kahani Punjab · Dec 25, 2011, 10:11 PM

CeeCee9191,

Bleeding can be due to lack of lubrication, it could be that he's just being too rough. Is your period due soon? Did you just have your period?

Is there adequate foreplay? So many things that it could be. Details are important to figure out what's going on.

If he's not a small man then he should know that and act accordingly. A well endowed man doesn't force himself in, he takes his time, makes sure that the woman he's with has enough foreplay and time to adjust to his size.

It can't be wham bam thank you ma'am, he has to take his time.

More foreplay, more tenderness and not until you're ready.

If it hurts then tell him, slow down.