[brian_clark]

I am 15, a sophomore and ready for sex. My girlfriend is 17, and junior and wants to wait until she graduates. If she waits until then, then I have until I'm 18 which is in 2014. How do I convince her to have sex before she is 18?

[talaniman]

You have no choice but to wait, but don't worry when she is ready she will get a real guy who doesn't pester her like a young horn dog, and who can respect her feelings about love, and sex.

Generally the guy who can't wait for the female to be ready, doesn't get sex anyway, so you better adjust your thinking.

[brian_clark]

I do respect her. I asked she says after graduation. I asked today which,was 2 months,later... Don't worry I don't push her

[ScottGem]

No one should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are financially and emotionally prepared to have a child.

I also have to wonder what a 17 yr old girl has in common with a 15 yr old boy. Girls generally mature faster than boys which is why its unusual for an older girl to be involved with a younger boy.

You should be the one waiting until 18, not her. And there is a side issue that she could get in legal trouble if she, as an adult, has sex with a minor.

I'm also wondering what your parents think about this relationship.

[DaniCalifornia]

Neither of you are ready for sex. You're under age, so it's out of the question, and she's made it clear she doesn't want to. Why are you with this girl? If you love someone you wouldn't pressure them into something like this.

[Fr_Chuck]

Actually she can't have sex with you if you are 15 when she turns 18, it will be illegal for her to have sex with a minor, she could go to jail.

Next you show her you have a job and can pay child support and support her, you show her you have 1000's of dollars in the bank to afford a baby.

And you show her you are not thinking with a body part but with your mind and you are mature enough to know that you will not be ready to have sex for several years.