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charleyjennings · Dec 24, 2011, 03:20 AM

This time last year I met a guy and we were seeing each other for about 7 months. Then we finished each other for there being no trust. We continued talking but then drifted, then we started sleeping together again. We decided it was best to leave each other alone and he got a new girlfriend. We then started sleeping together AGAIN, and it wasn't just him that came on to me, so the blame can't only be placed on him. We got angry because we both can't stay away. The only thing I knew about his girlfriend was her name. I told his girlfriend anonymously and she replied and then she asked him, he lied and she did nothing. So there is nothing more I can do. But it is JUST sex nothing else, no wanting a relationship, just sex. I should stop sleeping with him right?

odinn7 · Dec 24, 2011, 06:36 AM

Originally Posted by charleyjennings

I told his girlfriend anonymously and she replied and then she asked him, he lied and she did nothing. So there is nothing more I can do. But it is JUST sex nothing else, no wanting a relationship, just sex. I should stop sleeping with him right?

Really? Nothing more that you can do... well, you could stop sleeping with him and helping him cheat on his girlfriend.

You claim it is just sex and nothing else but to me, the fact that you are reluctant to give him up and also that you told her he's cheating (indicating that you were trying to break them up)... well, that says to me that you want him to yourself.

Make up your mind.

talaniman · Dec 24, 2011, 11:36 AM

Yes its just sex, and that's it. You know what's right to do, just do it, NO MORE EXCUSES!

There is never a good excuse for bad behavior, and that includes cheating, and yes you were cheating to, as you have acknowledged.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 24, 2011, 11:49 AM

Guess you could send her some photos of you two doing it.

Let me see you broke up since you can't trust him, and he is lying to his girlfriend about having sex with you. So he basically told his girlfriend you lied about having sex with him.

talaniman · Dec 24, 2011, 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Guess you could send her some photos of you two doing it.

Let me see you broke up since you can't trust him, and he is lying to his girlfriend about having sex with you. So he basicly told his girlfriend you lied about having sex with him.

That makes him a lying cheater.

vanheart · Dec 24, 2011, 05:28 PM

Yup, its just sex.

Not really sure what else your question was.

Hes using you & you let him. If you don't want the drama, then don't sleep with him.

Or worry about his gfs or you being his #1.

That isn't going to happen. But, you already know that...