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    jenlynnn Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 22, 2011, 02:02 PM
    My child's father was molested as a child by men and women...
    I'm 6 months pregnant and the father of my child has told me he was molested. I'm concerned about leaving my child alone with him and I feel guilty thinking like that. It has come to my attention that he has several lewdness charges and most recently ejaculated on a sleeping woman on the train which he currently is in jail for. I had no idea about any of the charges until a detective contacted me about the latest charge. I know I should just ignore him and not let him see the baby well that's what family and friends are saying. I want help him and be there for him but all of this just disturbs me and I don't know what to do.
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    Dec 22, 2011, 03:30 PM
    I agree with family and friends. Stay away from him, and keep him out of your life, and your child's life. If he wants help, he should get it, but your job is to protect you and your child.

    He is dangerously disturbed, and likely will be in and out of jail. Leave it be, you cannot help, or be there for him.
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    Dec 22, 2011, 03:45 PM
    Yes, I agree with family and friends, I would get custody when the child is born and fight not to allow him any visits that are not court supervised
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    Jan 1, 2012, 11:46 PM
    I totally see why you would be worried. The safety of your baby is the most important thing and you need to trust Your gut on this one. I'm wondering if he will have parole conditions that he is not able to be in contact with children due to his sexual offences?

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