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    mcrockett Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 11, 2011, 07:23 PM
    How to get him back
    Background:this summer I had a thing with a guy and I met all his core guy friends and I became close with them all especially mike and luke. But then the kid I was with he went to Italy for 2 weeks and so I Hung with mike and Luke everyday and we were so tight, then like told me that the guy cheated on me and I was devistated and so I went to miks to vent anf a few hours later he made me feel so much better. Then a few nights later mime called me while he was kind of drunk and said how much he liked me and that the guy doesn't care for.me and that mike himself would be perfect for me and treat me the way I should be. I was flattered but I got so mad a t mike and blew up at him, he knew how confused I was about everything right then and I didn't need that and I think.I took my anger out on him:( we have hun once since then and its been 4 months. I realized that I started to fall for him I just didn't know it. I don't know what to do anymore and I miss him so much and just at least want to be buds again
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    Dec 14, 2011, 09:09 PM
    I would first make sure it's true that this guy cheated on you, because it could very well be that his friends have feelings for you and are trying to get you for themselves. You also need to discover if your feelings for Mike are real, or if it's only because you're flattered that he likes you, which don't get me wrong, is always very sweet! And if you decide that being in a relationship with him would be too complicated, try to be friends again! Because that's when you were having fun, and you miss him, so it's always better to try to be friends and be able to just hang out when it's this uncertain :D Then maybe after all the drama is over, you and him could wind up together!
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    Dec 14, 2011, 09:24 PM
    All of this falling for one person after another happens awfully fast.
    Tell mike you are sorry for blowing up at him and go back to being friends. What happened with the first guy, did he really cheat?
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    Dec 15, 2011, 08:49 PM
    That's what I was hoping to do and I have apologized over and over and its done and he says he wants to hang but never responds to texts, and I know for a fact the other guy did cause I confronted him about it.
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    Dec 15, 2011, 09:08 PM
    You can't make him like you as he did before . Just let him be. Don't bug him with texts. If he wants to talk to you he will.
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    Dec 16, 2011, 05:19 AM
    Yea I get it
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    Dec 16, 2011, 05:20 AM
    And its not really about getting back to how it was its about just being friends again
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    Dec 16, 2011, 01:42 PM
    Give him time and space.He will come around when he is ready.
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