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    xx321 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 14, 2011, 06:20 PM
    Why Do people hate me for no reason?
    I have seen that people on the street that look very rude to me :| O__O and for no reason... ps:I'm not annoying, ugly, fat, or I don't know. I just can't found the reason please help me
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    kjoy82 Posts: 33, Reputation: 11
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    Dec 15, 2011, 06:40 AM
    What are the reactions of the people that you see? And what makes you feel like they hate you?

    I grew up feeling the same as you, but only to find out 51 years later that I have a certain look to me.
    When I am not smiling... I naturally look stern or angry ( its my mothers genes!).
    My son today has had the same problem for over 31 years... lol.
    We both discussed this, and starting smiling a little more. We found that people were not so afraid of us, and even began to speak to us and smile back. It had nothing to do with who we are on the inside, but how we look and act toward others.
    Also your body positions says a lot to other people. Google it and read up on it.
    That has helped my son and I a great deal!
    In fact when I get one of those looks and I still do at times... I just smile at them...
    It makes a huge difference!!
    Hope that this helps you :)!
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    justlucky Posts: 12, Reputation: -2
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    Mar 12, 2012, 04:43 PM
    I also get hated for posting answers on here that people don't find helpful. As an adult 33 I feel that should get some respect too.

    It does make me feel really sad in a way. I've been picked on and hated ever since I was young a girl. I guess they don't like deaf people.

    But knowing it like this, there is no need to feel the low down, because I always remember this from my grandmother: "you have a contrite and humble spirit and you've been blessed so much that no one can take that away from you"

    Don't let anyone judge you. Just be yourself.


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