[ashLEA]

me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and we have been together for about two and a half years. last night he told me that he needed a break and i dont know what it means. does it mean that he doesnt waht to be with me or does it mean that we just need to slow down for a little bit. if thats the case are we still boyfriend and girlfriend i really want some advice i just dont know what to think at all. it really hurts :confused: more than anyone know.

[JakM2007]

Hi there. Im 18 an I've just split up with my 16 yr old girlfriend. I know how you feel. We were together for 19 months an I still love her, we took a break once for about a week and personally it did help, we used to see each other everyday for over a year and that week break really showed me how much I cared for her. We were better after that so he may realise the same thing, he also may be thinking about something else.Although we split up we're still friends and love each other. A break may be a good thing for your relationship but, but my advice would be if he comes back and discusses splitting up then believe me find a friend you can be with and feel comfortable with an preferably someone that has been through the same thing, never stay on your own and stay friends with him through the breakup, that way you can still see each other and believe it ,makes things a lot easier and slower, if I had broken up and never seen her again I would prob have had a breakdown. If you want to talk online then my email or msn is [email protected]. Hope this helps. Just ask if there anything else. :)

[talaniman]

I think you need to talk to him to find out what he means. I suspect he wants to move on.