[RDC5216]

My ex, and I went together 4 months. The only problem we had, was that we work together. I had gone on vacation for a week, came back and she missed me like crazy. The end of the week that I got back we got into a nothing fight, really over nothing, and she broke up with me.

Its been a month, I've tried to get her back, but she said no, cause of work. The weird thing is, if I text her, she'll answer every time, but won't contact me. I want her back, it was only our job that was the problem.

[talaniman]

I doubt it, but since she dumped you, stop texting her because if the job was the problem, and the job is still there, then you still have a problem.

Leave her alone, and do NC properly so you can move on, and not lose your dignity, and self respect... or your job.

[Cheeze_Babe56]

If she really loved you, than she would have talked to you about it and came up some way around it. It seems to me like she wants to talk to you but not actually be with you. (my opinion)

[stranger009]

I been into that situation but I was away for few months and when I ccame back things were changed I clearly saw some other guy in the picture. Talk to her what she wants if she is confused or donno then let her be. Best thing for you would be move on and tell her you don't need her because she broke up with you for something, its not possible someone would break for nothing, there is something wrong from her side. Don't contact her, let her miss u, If she loves you she will get back to you if not you will find somebody better than her, there are lot of girls out there. That's my suggestion.

[Fr_Chuck]

No contact is not a way to get someone back, if you want her back go begging on your knees or something. No contact is a way to get over her and move on with your life.

[RDC5216]

Thanks, guys
But i found a new job and she still won't get back with me. She was just lying to me. She said we both wanted different things. I know she's not seeing anyone, so i don't know what's wrong with her.