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    TaylorGang08 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 4, 2011, 05:12 PM
    Need some advice about a girl.
    So this girl and I have been hanging out for about a month. We've gone on a couple dates, and we've really hit it off. We talk a lot, and it seemed like everything was going great. We call each other babe/baby, but we're not like "going out". So the other day, she tells me that she slept with her ex boyfriend, who is a tool, the other night, and that they were totally through. I was shocked, because I thought we were coming along nicely. I was mad, because I wouldn't have expected that from her. So I suppose my question is, what do you think my reaction should've been, and where do I go from here? Thanks
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Dec 4, 2011, 06:20 PM
    Just me, I stay away from females that are sleeping with the exes. I don't care what they say about things being over, its just not worth the head games as I see it.

    Maybe you see things differently.
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    Dec 4, 2011, 06:49 PM
    I'd back off a bit, as it doesn't sound as though things are completely over with the ex. What was that anyway, one for the road?

    With only a couple of dates, and a month of hanging out, you don't have too much invested. If you want to continue seeing her once in awhile, take it slow.

    Since you aren't exclusive with her, you don't have any say in what she does, but you will have to decide if her actions are that of the type of person you want to be with or not.
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    Dec 11, 2011, 09:31 PM
    I say leave her alone or keep your distance until she figures out what she lost.
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    Feb 22, 2012, 11:46 PM
    Move On. You Were Being Nice To Her, And She Does Something Like This?. She's Just Playing With You. Move On.
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    Feb 23, 2012, 12:10 AM
    I wouldn't really be with a female who is still sleeping around with her ex. Or sleeping around at all actually.

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