[volleyballchick]

Ok I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend was fooling around one night and he had kind of attempted to insert his penis from behind and like I honest don't think his penis even got anywhere near my actual vagina but I've read so many articles about pre *** and that there could be sperm in it and like I had just ended my period the day before and I think that means I was considered high fertility? And I read what some if the symptoms were of pregnancy and the only thing I've really had since likr a day ago is I've been peeing a lot more and I felt sick this morning at school but I was discussing it and it just makes me sick to think about me being pregnant so if anyone could just kind of tell me if I'm being too paranoid that would be great=\ lol

[JaneDoughnut]

Hi volleyballchick,

You have a choice of which way you want your life to go. This should be a warning for your to abstain from even getting close to having sex with anyone at all, or, to wear a diaphragm for protection from pregnancy. Can you find a planned parenthood organization of something similar to help you out there? Don't count on men to supply protection. They often have old condoms that crack open easily or sized wrong and slip off easily.
But you need a condom also for protection against HIV. Make sure they are somewhat new if either the guy or you supply them. Don't believe a boy who says he has no chance of having HIV. HIV does not discriminate against race, sexual preference, age, IQ, poverty or riches, or anything else. It's a scientific fact you need only be human.

You are wise to ask for help - and there is no such thing as too paranoid when it comes to HIV or unwanted pregnancy. Please respect your future and play it safe from now on, either that or you are not mature enough to experience the joys of sex at all. Your choice. Pick wisely. Good Luck!

[Fr_Chuck]

Actually unless you are tracking other things besides period you will not know when our fertile period is.

Also you were vague about if he actually penetrated or not. Or if he rubbed or what exactly happened.

From what you said, he did not enter at all. Assuming he did not latter use his finger with sperm on it, it sounds like there is not really much of a chance.

I will also agree, I hope this is a wake up call.