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    djokovic10 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 22, 2011, 05:04 PM
    I don't know what to do with my ex girlfriend..
    Kay so she broke up with me two weeks ago. She started by saying that she isn't breaking up with me or anything but that she I've been thinking a lot and like she can't deal with guys right now and that she need to focus on school and sht and that she barely see me (we can't see each other during the week cause she live at like 30 minutes of me and her parents are abit gay so yeah) and that she doesn't want a boyfriend yet. She's like don't think I'm saying that cause I want to like hook up with other guys and sht cause I honestly don't want to even think about guys at all right now and that she actually legit like me a lot but that she doesn't want to have to deal with having a boyfriend yet and in a little while she might want to again like in a couple months but right now she actually can't have a boyfriend or even think about guys.. And that's she's so sorry and that she still care about me and sht and like if we still can stay good friends but that's she doesn't want anything else at the moment.. That's killed me cause I loved her so much and I just stopped replying to her text.. The last thing she sent to me was that its not that she doesn't like me its just that she doesn't want a boyfriend at the moment. And I didn't reply..
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    Dec 1, 2011, 08:39 AM
    Well, one of the worst things you can do is ignore her texts. That will make her think that you don't want to even be frineds anymore and that you don't care about her. You are hurt, which is understandable, but you should not do anything to hurt her back. 2 wrongs don't make a right honey. You have to work with her or she might change her mind about wanting to get back together with you because she will think you don't want her back
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    Dec 18, 2011, 05:04 PM
    It could be that her parents don't want her dating right now because of school? I just had to break up with my boyfriend, because of that... I really loved him, but I just need to get my priorities in order. You didn't text her back? Ha, my Boyfriend did the same thing, he being a **** to me, and that just makes me never want to get back with him again. Don't do that! Text her, and tell her you understand! This will make things so much less awkward if you see her. Maybe, things will workout for you in the future and you and her can work things out . (:
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    Dec 21, 2011, 03:00 PM
    Keep texting her but don't flirt. When she's ready for a boyfriend again, she'll flirt with you then you know that she's ready. But for now, respect the fact that she's not ready and be her friend. Could you answer my question please? Thank you!

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