[TiredWarVet]

I have been with my girl for 7 years, yes 7 years. Five years in she informs me that she has been keeping in touch with her ex the whole time. At this point the situations was tough because I had already been through so much with her and was very much in love with her. However, I learned of her visiting him while mad at me through the years in addition to talking to him. Suffice to say it hurts and continues to sting me. Every attempt to talk to her about it she simply replies he is just a friend or I shouldn't be worried. I do love her, yet don't know how much longer I can put up with this.
Any thoughts?

[geminichick]

It is pretty difficult when it comes to exes. I think where I would draw the line is where she goes to see him when she is angry at you. I think she should have been honest from the start that she was still keeping touch with her ex. YOu learned from someone else that she visited him? For me her being honest and being straightforward with you is her biggest issue. If your intuition is telling you something sometimes we need to go with that.

[talaniman]

I would stop putting up with it, and stop wasting my time with someone who still has an ex in there life after 7 years, its ridiculous.

[Cheeze_Babe56]

I still talk to my ex and I am engaged. What is wrong with that. I still love him, just not like how use to. If you trust that she is telling the truth than don't worry. There isn't anything wrong with talking to exes, as long as they don't do anything

[vanheart]

I would talk to her.

Bring that up. Find out.

I wouldn't dig that either. May be nothing.

Sad that it took 7 years to figure that out. What are you blind?

Have a serious sit down.

Find out who's #1.

[pahlp]

Your not asking for a lot, her refusal stings with lack of respect for you and her priorities. I would think that she would be more concerned about how you feel than defend a relationship that ended 7 years ago. Problem is it doesn't look like that relationship ever ended.