[queenofheart]

I've been with him for quite long time. The problem is I want to know whether my boyfriend is a saving or stingy person. He was a student. He is in affordable family. More than afford. His father gave him weekly allowance. The thing is, whatever I ask for, in terms of leisure activities that cost expensive or expensive place to eat, he will refuse and ask me to save. So far, I was never get to dine at expensive place yet. It is not too expensive. Me myself can afford to pay. I even didn't ask him to pay but he still refuse and said he will dine at expensive and exclusive place if he was with his family ONLY. Because he knew that his father will pay. If I say, I will pay, he ask me to save money. Don't waste money and all. I was like, its not like we are going to eat at such place every time we hang out. But why when it comes to gadgets and car accessories, he willing to spend a lot than he could afford.yes, I admit he did gave me things, buy me present for birthday and always spent money pay for the cinema and food if we hang out. I am grateful. But the thing I ask, he didn't give. But the thing I didn't ask, he gave me. I never ask him to buy clothes shoes etc for me. I love food. I love to eat. Never mind if its expensive. If its tooooo expensive I wouldn't ask him to eat there. I know the limit. All this while, whatever thing he gave me, if its damaged, he complained. If I don't wear it, he complained. If I didn't take a good care of it, he will complained. He will say the goods he gave me is expensive so I have to take a very good care of it. Is that sincere? At one point, I prefer not to use his money. I likely more prefer to buy anything using my own money. So he will not complain. But for now I remain with a positive thinking, he is a student. So he is not affordable enough to buy me to pay me all things. Is that the right way ? Is he saving person or stingy?thank you