[Danny205]

Hello all, I am a new member of this community . I had come across this community while looking for the answer to my questions.Well to state my problem...

The girl I love is not interested in such things or it could be said that she is from cultured family and also one important thing is that she fears to her dad. Her dad is doing job in police department and he is so strict. But I never get fears from her dad cause I love her truly.

5-6 years ago she took admission to our school and joined the coaching-class. In our class life she is my friend for short time cause that time I like another girl of school but after some time I forget her. Those days our roll numbers are back and forth, but I never feel about her .We usually share the answer. Sometimes she show me her answer, sometimes me too.But one day she just behave like so mean & that is time I felt in love with her.

At 9th standard our roll number get changed. So I didn't get any chance to talk with her. One of the friends which studies in her class spread that we are in an affair. So everybody called her by my name and that is the wrong thing that happen with her .And main thing is that I get aware from this. She tried to tell me to stop this nonsense but I didn't get her that time cause our both classroom are different in school.

After finishing school life she took admission to diploma as her aim and by following her I too took admission in diploma. In short I tried everything to get her but I failed. I have read your site 4 years ago article on the same topic. You have mentioned that "No more contact" this is the main thing I have to ask you that one of my best friends knows my whole love story and also me. Indirectly he related to her as I think. As you say I will not keep any old contact but what about my best friend?

Is it right to leave him alone cause he had supported me at my worst time? After doing this I think I can forget her very well.So please me help me out from this situation.

[talaniman]

While it's a good idea to stop contact with her, its not necessary to do the same to your friend as long as he stays out of your personal business with her.

[Danny205]

Yeah your right.But as I said earlier he relate to her directly & indirectly.Coz once I got caught while following her to the way of college from that time she know my friend very well.Most of the time they coming face to face but she ignores,She knows that he is mah friend.Whenever they come face to face my friend tell me that.But now he stop to tell me,Coz he expect that I should forget her as soon as possible.

[talaniman]

I would agree with him totally.

[Danny205]

Sorry, but may I know with whom your totally agree?

[Danny205]

Is der anyone to help me out frm this situation.I am waiting for JoeCanada's answer.I have confidence that he will solve ma problem.

[talaniman]

Coz he expect that I should forget her as soon as possible.

I agree with your friend when he tells you to forget her.