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    panevezys3 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 15, 2011, 07:07 PM
    How can I be strong to break?
    I am in love with a man who is gambler, has other women. I had borrowed him lots of money, he never returned me a penny.

    One day he asked me to move in with me. I am scared of his gambling habit, I told him lets wait. He was very upset and ever since then he is blaming me that I had ruined his life. He tells me he wanted to stop his freedom and stop gambling but realizied he is not loved. Now he told me he will live his own life with whatever he wants.

    I want to break with him, but can't. What should I do?
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    Nov 15, 2011, 07:19 PM
    Leave the gambler alone and find someone who takes life and you more seriously.
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    Nov 15, 2011, 08:41 PM
    What do you mean you can't? You can when you get sick and tired of being his fool!!

    Sorry, not trying to be harsh, but you better wake up and think of yourself instead of him. This can't be making you happy so change it and leave him to do as he pleases.
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    Nov 16, 2011, 10:45 PM
    Nothing about this is good for you, just him.

    Love? C'mon...

    "Now he told me he will live his own life with whatever he wants"

    Good. Be rid of this leach.
    Once & for all.
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