[Soulgirl]

I met this guy and it was a love at first sight connection. When we became Facebook friends we realized just how similar we were our tastes interests and beliefs were the same. I truly believed he was my soul mate. Whenever I tried talking to him he never gave me the time of day or answered in one word answers. I tried for months trying to talk to him, eventually I sent him a very harsh email and left town. Then I contacted him again and he said when I am in town we should meet. I contacted him to meet but he said he was always busy, I sent him a text saying the" the point is if you wanted to see me you would have" he never texted back.
Should I take it as this guy is playing games with me, and does not want to have anything to do with me, honestly I feel played that he contacted me to see him when I was in town just to play me all over again.
Not sure what to do, I still would like to be friends, and talk to him, but he clearly does not want to talk to me, he never did? Wondering if there is something wrong with me? What should I do, my head says leave it, move on, my heart feels differently

[talaniman]

I go with what your head is saying, and leave him alone. If he is playing a game, why play with him? Friends, Naw, I don't think so.

[Soulgirl]

Thanks for your answer, really appreciate it. Just helps to get another persons opinion

[talaniman]

Talaniman Rule - Never play games with your heart, and never allow anyone else to play games with it either

[mmresd]

Normally it is best to follow your head than your heart, because a lot of what your heart feels is lust, and without knowing someone assuming that he felt the same way you felt is absurd. Next time try to start a normal conversation with the person, if he doesn't respond, then obviously he has better things do.