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    kalacz92 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 11, 2011, 10:28 AM
    I met a girl but now she ignores me
    Hello I I am 20yo and I met a girl at college, by first I have to say that I see her everywhere, let me explain:
    If I am walking to my classroom, she is just walking the same walkway oppsite direction, so I see her. If I am on library, I find her there, If I am on cafeteria, she's also having a meal... Because I used to find her over and over she just started to like me, then, a friend of her said "hey, there's the guy" and they look at me. Next time, she stared at me but I couldn't hold her sight and I turned my head, I tought: "maybe i like her".
    Next time we match, I approached to her and I said "hello, i find you everywhere and I needed to say hello..." She was very kind, we talk about our school problems and all that, it was actually a very good experience except for one thing: she said that she had never seen me before, and I can swear she lied because the things I said, well we talked for about 5 minutes, but I needed to go so I said, "Nice to meet you, i got to go, good bye!" and I moved.
    A couple of days later, I was waiting her to say me hello but she just walked in the front of me and ignored me, the next time occurred the same, and the next, and the next time happened the same so I sent her a Facebook msg: "hello, I'm not harassing you, right?" but she did not answer, then I sent her a friend request and she also ignored it. Then she just started to hide from me and I noticed, so I sent another Facebook PM: "Hey, I noticed that you are hiding from me, sorry if i am annoying you" And I decided to ignore her forever.
    The bad thing comes now: We still coincide many times at school but now she looks very often at me, she stands in front of me doing nothing and occasionally looks at me, I don't know what to do, I am not interested in her anymore but I want to know what happened, why she sent me signs and then sent me off, what should I do? Aprroach her again and ask what happened or just let it go? Sorry about my bad english, I am from russia
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    Nov 11, 2011, 11:20 AM
    It sounds like she is not interested in you, leave it at that and move on to talking to other girls.
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    Nov 11, 2011, 11:03 PM
    Can you imagine any explanation for her behaviour? Why did she sent me signals and then she drawn me in the toilet?
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    Nov 11, 2011, 11:12 PM
    I don't see that she actually sent you any "signals."

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