[dammets]

This is the same girl from my other question. Here's the link for convenience, but you don't have to read it.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...me-599937.html

Ok so here's the story now. We've still been talking for the past month. We've both been kind of busy, and a couple times when I called her to hang out, she said she couldn't. But before those times, I texted her about a party that was going on that day, asking her what time she was going. She then called me giving me details about when she was going and why she was going at that exact time. We had a good time together, but it wasn't the place to make a move, which I've been meaning to do. Now in the middle of October, we didn't talk for a week and half. I never texted or called her during this time and neither did she text me. So at the end of the week and the half, I texted her saying something like "hey, how've you been? She texted back saying "hey I haven't talked to you in forever." So we were just talking like normal after.

Two days later, I texted her to see if she wanted to go for a walk with me. We live very close to each other. It's about a 5 minute walk. She repied that she couldn't because she was about to go to volleyball practice. I then texted her "OK no problem, let me know one day when you're not doing anything and we can hang out." She did not respond to that text. I kind of saw that as a bad thing.


Skip to last wednsday. While I was walking to class, she called me, saying that she was in a car and she saw me walking. That's all she wanted to say.

Now skip to a few days ago. I called her to see if she wanted to hang out. Her phone was either off or had no service, so it went to her answering machine. I left her a voice message saying "hey, call me when you get this message." This was the first time I ever left her a voicemail.

We have the same phone, so an hour later, I realized that if our phones are off, we're not told about missed calls. I also realized that I didn't mention my name when leaving her a voice message, so I texted her saying "Hey I tried calling you eariler. Give me a call when you can." so she would know who left the message.

About an hour later, she called me, but right away it stopped ringing. After one ring it stopped. This confused me greatly. I didn't call her back.

I found out there was an event at her school that she was at, and that night she posted on Facebook. Not sure if it was on her phone though, but if it was, it doesn't explain why her call stopped after one ring.

So this is where I'm at. When I text her to hang out, she's busy a lot of the time, which I know to be true, but she doesn't give me another time, nor does she text me to hang out. But it's times like when she called me saying she saw me walking to class that makes me think she may still be interested.

For the past few months, I've been wanting to make a move when we're both alone together, but she's been making that a bit hard.

Now I prefer to ask her to hang out normally and then make a move but if she says she's busy, I'm thinking of just texting or calling her to tell her that I really need to tell her something in person. I've been patient, but I'm just dying to show her how I feel.
So what should do I do about that? And Tell me what you think of the situation.

Thank you all in advance. Sorry if I sound kind of lame here, but I really like this girl and I don't want to stop trying to be with her without some sort of closure. And I definitely don't want to tell her how I feel over the phone.

[talaniman]

Challenging isn't it? Seems you will be making that move over the phone, because she sure ain't co operating with the face time opportunities. Except the one time at a party, which tells you that the hanging out will be in a social setting. She isn't really in control of what she does, and that indicates her parents keep aware of her whereabouts, and with who.

She is 16 guy, she probably cannot date, or hangout, except with approved friends, and approved places, and she will never tell you that.