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    fundip96 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 6, 2011, 04:17 PM
    Suspicions
    Ok this summer I fell for this guy, He was my first kiss, my first for almost everything, He was my world and when I learned that I would be moving a couple hours away he said he would stay with me. See I was moving in with some of my step dads family. One day He was over at my house and I was talking to my cousin online. After that night she had some problems with her relationship, and he was talking about it to her on my profile, they ended up adding each other.

    About two or three weeks before I moved he kept promising me that he would never hurt me and that he would always love me. Then one day when they were talking about her problems, he was talking to me about what she was saying then all of a sudden he wouldn't tell me what they were talking about just that he could relate to what she was saying. That night he broke up with me and I was crushed it was one of the worst nights of my life.

    Today I was talking about him to one of my friends at my new house, and my cousin was with me she started acting really really weird, and not wanting to talk to me. I was thinking about it (it hadn't occurred to me until about a week ago) and all the conversations that me and him had about her and me and her about him. I am wondering if she had something to do with mine and his break up. If she said something to him about me that made him think I didn't love him. Am I wrong for having this suspicion?

    Because I have recently found out that he still has feelings for me. I just don't know if I can trust her talking to him anymore. Am I wrong for having these suspicions or am I just superstitious?
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    Nov 6, 2011, 04:51 PM
    First loves are often like this, as one moves, they will slowly end normally.
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    Nov 6, 2011, 06:26 PM
    I think you are still hurting from the break up and looking for reasons. Since you have no proof of anything, he is the only one to answer your questions.

    What reason did he give you for the break up?
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    Nov 23, 2011, 05:39 PM
    You are not wrong for having these suspicions. First loves are weird but amazing the only way to know for sure would be to ask one or both of them talk to him about his still existent feelings and tell him if you still love him or not and go from there
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