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kmorgan11 · Nov 4, 2011, 09:10 PM

We have been together going on three years, and last Christmas he asked me to marry him. At that time things were good. Then after a while it was like everything started to fall apart, or it seemed that way. He is in school now, and we barely see each other, but one day a week and we don't ever talk anymore. On the day we do see each other, its like he has better things to do.

He will be gone for twenty, thirty minutes at a time, while I am there, and I really am starting to feel like he is pushing me away. I don't know what to do. I mean he is 25 and I am 21, and I know he is meeting other girls at school and stuff, but I am trying to keep myself from thinking that he may be doing things behind my back.

vanheart · Nov 4, 2011, 11:08 PM

"we don't ever talk anymore"
That's my concern. Did you ever?

Be glad he is bettering himself. You should too.

As far as your worries. Have you talked to him about all of these feelings?
Is there a future together? What's the PLAN?

All I know, is that when someone "has better things to do", they aren't worth my time.
Period.
Maybe, that's all in your head.

Find out.
Sounds like you know already.

talaniman · Nov 5, 2011, 10:21 PM

Sorry, but if you cannot talk honestly to each other and resolve your issues together, then its time to be apart.

Not an easy thing to do but try discussing your future together.

KalaKennedy · Nov 8, 2011, 07:19 AM

Well, I would try and think of what the good things are about your relatioship lately, if there is one? Is there? Think abouot how you feel when you are with but think about how you feel when you aren't with him you feel lonely? Do you live together? Was your engagement rushed? If you think it was you need to sit down and have a civil chat with him xx :) xx

kmorgan11 · Nov 10, 2011, 01:59 PM

We were together almost two years already before the engagement.. I don't think it was rushed... but I do feel like we have lost each other in some way, all of this started way back in march when I got home from being with my sister in Indiana for two and a half months... he didn't seem like he cared too much that I was home... his best friend who lives with him was more excited I was home then he was.