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    Oct 30, 2011, 06:15 PM
    When to know that I can't make her fall for me
    I have this I friend whom I like so much. When I first knew her, she had a boyfriend, so I couldn't do anything. I waited for her and finally she is single. I told her about how I feel about her, and she told me that she sees me as a friend.

    It hurt me so much, and I tried to avoid her, but after two months she called me and told me that she wanted to meet! So then I thought I'll be lucky to win her heart, but when I went to her place, I found two of her friends. We ended up watching a film all together.

    I'm praying God to open up a way to her heart! I want to know if I have to forget all about it or try harder! Please help!
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    Oct 30, 2011, 06:18 PM
    You cannot make anyone fall in love with you. All you can do is be a friend and get to know her, and she get to know you. Maybe there will be magic, but maybe there will be only friendship.
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    Nov 1, 2011, 04:12 PM
    I would love to know her more and more but really I don't know what happened to me! Every time I'm near her I feel so shy I can't talk I lose the words! I had in mind to call her and to ask her to come to see some kind of a store I want to open and I need to take her opinion "its just an excuse to meet her" but I'm so shy to call her I'm afraid that maybe she understand that is just a plan to take her out! I do really feel something for her in fact I can't work these days because all the I think about her!
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    Nov 1, 2011, 04:16 PM
    Please don't type in caps. That's considered as shouting and is a pain for me to have to put into lower-case.

    I think at this point you are only making yourself miserable and are obsessing over her. How can you get your mind off her?
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    Nov 1, 2011, 04:40 PM
    So you think that I can't do anything! Else but to let her go!!
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    Nov 1, 2011, 04:46 PM
    Just be yourself and be her friend. You can't make her love you. Some of the most famous lovers started as friends.
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    Nov 1, 2011, 04:51 PM
    I can do that I'll be her friend and what's is going to be its going to be in the end at least I'll have the chance to meet her since! But the only thing I'm afraid of is that to make a fool of myself.. thank you :) that helped!

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