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Littlezummerme · Oct 30, 2011, 09:14 PM

Okay I met this guy and his name is Aaryn. At first I thought he was cute but I didn't go for him at all. Then I actually sat down and talked with him. I didn't say much but everything he said and I said were the same. After a while of talking to him we found it so hard to find something we didn't have in common. We right now have everything in common except the fact that he's a boy an I'm a girl (but that isn't that bad xD) Well he didn't have a girlfriend for that time.. I slowly fell in love with him. Then one day I went to talk to him in the back yard an I can't believe it but I told him I liked him. I NEVER DO THAT. But when I did that he told me he likes me to. Then he asked if I like liked him and I'm like... Yea... Yea I do :) an he was like yea... Same :) an in my head I'm like YEAYYY but then like there was this little hill near the house an it was cut off and from the porch you couldn't see from there. (we were at my aunts and grandmas house) Well he walked up to me and is like I'm going to push you down this hill and I'm like uhhh okay. Then he pushes me down. Not like shoved me he kind of just walked me down there and it was like oookkkkaaayyy.. But then he circled me like twice and I was standing there spinning and like I guess he put his arms on my waist and got close to me.. I got all shaky but then he kissed me.. We ended up making out and I was so happy form that. Well after that he didn't ask me out but he still flirted with me. An like one day I was on Facebook and saw that just recently he got a girlfriend... I litteraly broke into 70000 pieces. I have NEVER liked a guy as much as I like him. He told me he couldn't ask me out because my dad and grandma would never acept it. An well they wouldn't but I want to tell him that I don't care what they say about me dating him. My aunt don't mind and nither does everyone else... except my uncle... But like even though he still has a girlfriend he still makes out with me and... Yea... But like I don't know what to do. I can't ask him out, I don't have the guts to tell him I want to date him and I don't care what my dad grandma or uncle think... An he says to get over him.. But he continues flirting with me... I am so confused and don't know what to do.. I like him but can't date him he says to get over him but continues flirting with me and my family would never acept it but I don't care and he does but doesn't at the same time OMFG WHAT SHOULD I DO

1confused1 · Oct 31, 2011, 01:04 AM

Well since you told him that you like him, if I were you, I would tell him that I really can't flirt or make out with him since he already has a girlfriend. Do you not think he is making out with the other girl too? Think about if he really was your boyfriend right now and you found out he was making out with another girl? How would that make you feel? Honestly the best thing you can do is to cut off contact with him or let him know that you really don't want him flirting with you and don't make out with him since he already has a girlfriend. You've already told him you don't care what your family thinks, so if he wants to be with you, he will leave the girl that he's with because he likes you more or if he doesn't, he's feelings were obviously not as strong as yours. I know it is a hard thing to do by cutting off the guy you really like, but it will be much harder if you continue to make out with him and he still does not break up with her.

Fr_Chuck · Oct 31, 2011, 02:53 AM

So you would not care if he was your boyfriend and he was making out with other girls, Seems to have a habit of that.

Does not sound like the type of boy you should want as a boyfriend does it ?

Also how old are you, and how old is he ? Why would your dad and uncle not want you dating him ?

Littlezummerme · Oct 31, 2011, 08:09 PM

I am 15 an he is 17 and they don't want me dating anyone because they are super protective of me.

1confused1 · Nov 1, 2011, 02:48 AM

With the age difference, I can understand why they don't want him dating you. Stay away from him, unless he breaks up with his girlfriend, do NOT make out with him. He seems like a douche to me. Any nice guy would not cheat on his girlfriend even if he likes you, a nice guy would only be with one girl