[Malibo]

Hello,
My darling daughter was born completely healthy and died 18 days later of sids. It happened in 2005 but it still cuts straight through my soul. I have had another completely healthy baby since but keep obsessing as to why Paige was taken from me but Gypsie was allowed to live. Who decides which babies are taken which ones lives? I am so utterly confused and can do with any help offered. If anyone can tell me how she is doing and who is looking after her that would be great.

Thank you

[jdselby1024]

I can relate to what has happened, I too lost a child due to a miscarriage, she was about 7 1/2 months along. No one should have to out live their children. So all though a bit different, similar in circumstances. I didn't really understand this part(If anyone can tell me how she is doing and who is looking after her that would be great.)
Some times in life there are events that happen that can't be explained. Some people tell you "oh it's for the best", or "it's God's will". Of course some people should think before they speak. I found a book that helped, it's called Whereis God when it hurts?" The following is a link to the book and what it's about.
Where is God When It Hurts? by Philip Yancey, reviewed by Ruth Marlene Friesen
For what its worth I hope this helps you, I will pray for peace, and comfort in your time of need. Feel free to email me if I can be of any further help oor if you just need a friend to talk to.