[togetherforever]

Okay so I am going through a bad confusion here, it happened last year exactly when I and my boyfriend *who used to be my best friend too) broke up last year for he thought I lied to him. (the lie was about my age. Thing is I happened to meet him online and I didn't tell my exact age to him the very first time we got talking and we have been best friends since 5 years and then started to see each other last year and he left me saying I lied ot him. Well I didn't really lied to him for all I did initially was to safe guard me(protect me) by not letting him know exact details of me and all these years he never asked me again and I also forgot that I had told him wrong age of mine. So since then he keeps coming back to me by being all nice and said too many times how bad he misses me and wants me and needs me but then again leave after having a fight for the ghosts of the past have still been haunting him, he has been coming back and going away since one year ever since we broke up and so you can say he has come back to me 8 times already. I wonder why is he doing this? Does he really love me still? Last he came back was during June 30th and left on 5th July and now since then he has not been talking to me. I want to know what's happening? I know for sure he loves me a lot for each time he came back he was sad and cried when told me how much he m issed me and still missing me and what I mean to him. Thing is whenever he wants to come back to me he comes back but no matter how many times I have tried to make him stay or talk to him he never responds nicely. I really want to know here what's in store for us. Will he come back? If yes when and for how long?> since I am really fed up of bouncing on n on like a tennis ball. For each time I am in my own comfort zone and wanting to move on he comes back asking for another chance and when I give him another chance he leaves me again, and I am afraid to move on now, can't seem to focus on anything at all. Please! Somebody guide me here and tell me what's happening. And please I will appreciate if nobody makes fun of this for its very close to my heart and means a lot to me. Only serious people who respects relations and emotions please respond.

And if he comes back will we be together forever? For we had planned to get married too, made many dreams and plans together and yes he only proposed me for marriage last year before he left me after he figured my exact age. So please help me figure! Thanks in advance

[hauntinghelper]

I respect relations and emotions very much... but trying to plan the present by looking in to the future is nonsense. Live it now, and life will throw you what it throws. All you can do is be honest with yourself and try your hardest, the rest will fall in to place.

Learn to trust in God, HE is something you CAN rely on... outside of Him you cannot trust the future, but IN Him... Jeremiah 29:11
""For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.""

[martinizing2]

I think you would be much better served if you posted in the "Relationship" thread.

No one can really tell you what will happen in the future.But you may be able to get some advice from some very wise and caring people who are there to help in situations like yours.
They may be able to help you make your future brighter much better than a "psychic" could.

[togetherforever]

Thanks both of you , means a lot to me xx