[saraschmitt]

Ok, so this guy wants to have sex with me but I want to date him, he has a job and a car, I think he thinks I'm a little kid, I don't want to have sex until I'm married and he wants to, I want to go on dates and date him!

[1confused1]

I just had a similar situation. I don't really want to be intimate with a guy I recently went on a date with. After not answering a couple of texts of his, he then texts me that he doesn't want to have a relationship just wants to have sex. To which I replied, "No," in a few choice words.

If you thinks you are kid, then why would he want to have sex with you. If the reason why you want to date him is because he has a car and a job, I would say your priorities are out of whack. Do you really like the guy or do you like the fact that he has a car and job?

If you want to go on dates and date him and he doesn't you can't force him to do something that he doesn't want to do. And just like the same, if you don't want to have sex and he does, he shouldn't force or coerce you into it.

You both need to respect the others opinion about the situation and realize you both want two different things. I suggest you find someone that wants to go out on dates and he find someone that wants to have sex.

[Fr_Chuck]

You basically say no to sex, and find someone who wants to date and become serious. Even if he dates, he will be expecting sex since he has already been up front on it

[MrzJohnson26]

If all he wants is to have sex with no kind of commitment then you're setting yourself up to be hurt, if you end up sleeping with him and he doesn't want nothing to do with you afterwards.