[Mollipop]

Hey, I want to know what guys look for in a girl..

[DrJ]

I don't think you will have much luck finding a consistent answer here.

I know, for myself, I look for girls that are REAL. They are true to themselves, confident about who they are, and not afraid to BE themselves. Confidence (without arrogance) goes a long way with either sex. Honestly and Integrity seal the deal.

Don't be fake.. don't change who you are to please a guy. You will thank me later ;)

[gypsy39]

I'm not a guy, but they are only human too. Be yourself. Healthy, grounded and mentally fit guys or men, love a woman who is doing her own thing. It's a challenge to them. They want the same things you do. Concern yourself more with your future. Take it from someone with more experience, find your happiness, your Zen, start planning for your financial future and ask yourself, who am I? Who are you when your by yourself? Do this, and the love you've been longing for will find you.

[corrigan]

I can't speak for other guys, but I can tell you what I look for in a woman. I like a girl that is engaging and easy to talk to, nothing is worse than talking to the wall. I like a girl who is willing to take an emotional risk, by that I mean girls have a tendency to wait for the guy to approach them, wait for the guy to call them, wait for the guy to ask them out, etc. (they sound like the same thing, but only if it's someone else doing them.) I like a girl that's intelligent and well read, she doesn't need to be an academic superstar, but I don't like talking with anyone who doesn't have a clue about anything. Open-mindedness and a idealogical view point that is different from my own, I don't want to talk to someone that has identical opinions as I do, and I don't want to talk to someone that thinks I need to agree with them on everything. And lastly and probably the most controversial, she needs to be attractive; not supermodel attractive or anything like that, but at some point sex will be involved and I need to be sexually attracted to her.