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    shizukamelodi Posts: 76, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 19, 2007, 01:00 PM
    I am in love with my friend.
    I Don't know WHAT TO DO! I AM IN LOVE WITH MY GOOD Friend.I Don't know HOW TO REACT!:confused:

    We used to play around and flirt. Then one day we both just sort of stopped a bit and toned it down to a casual "hello" etc... not what we used to be like. I miss him a lot. Now my best mate likes him but she is a slut! She has two BF's and 2 crushes she likes the guy and "his" best mate! He just seemed to be forgetting me and going onto her etc.. Of couse she LOVES it.
    :(
    I don't know if he is waving her in front of my face to get my attention or if he just doesn't care about me anymore. I feel like the girl in the shadows. It's him , her and the other one (me)

    He still acknowledges me a bit but we seem to be far apart now.:(

    I love him so much I don't know what to do!

    We both go out at the weekends together BUT my friend is there too! She seems to be all over him in my face! I hate it what do I do?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Feb 19, 2007, 01:21 PM
    Stop playing hurt g/f for one and communicate with him how you feel honestly. Everyone is growing up and changing so being honest is the way to go. You have no claim on him so either let it go or do something to protect your interest, such as letting him know how you feel. He may never be friends again, knowing how you feel, but those are the risk we take in life.
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    Jul 15, 2008, 10:13 PM
    Well what you can do is that you can call him, e-mail him, text him etc. and ask him to get some alone time like out to the mall. And you can talk to him and ask "what's up why are we not friends anymore?" or if your shy like me you can IM him. Anyways all you need to do is talk and let him know your upset, and your kind of jealous.
    Hope every thing works out!!!!
    ROCK ON
    Minchow123 :)
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    Jul 16, 2008, 07:44 AM
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    Jul 16, 2008, 09:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by shizukamelodi
    I DUNNO WHAT TO DO! I AM IN LOVE WITH MY GOOD FREIND.I DUNNO HOW TO REACT!:confused:

    We used to play around and flirt. then one day we both just sorta stopped a bit and toned it down to a casual "hello" etc... not what we used to be like. I miss him a lot. Now my best mate likes him but she is a slut! she has two BF's and 2 crushes she likes the guy and "his" best mate! He just seemed to be forgetting me and going onto her etc.. of couse she LOVES it.
    :(
    I dunno if he is waving her in front of my face to get my attention or if he just doesn't care about me anymore. I feel like the girl in the shadows. it's him , her and the other one (me)

    he still acknowledges me a bit but we seem to be far apart now.:(

    i love him so much i dunno what to do!

    we both go out at the weekends together BUT my freind is there too! she seems to be all over him in my face! i hate it what do i do?
    Tell him how you feel and ask him about your slut friend. The truth might hurt, but it is better than a lie.
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