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    Oct 19, 2011, 11:56 AM
    Is she too young for me? What should I do?
    I am a 22-year-old, devoted, christian guy. I have just recently developed a major crush (for lack of a better word) on a 16-year-old girl. This crush, although maybe strange, is not of any impure motive. I like this girl because she is so funny and has so much in common with me. She is just great. I just got out of a long-term relationship and am trying to get a few career decisions sorted out right now so I'm not ready for a relationship right at this time. However, as many of you know, it's hard to keep feelings like this a secret. Should I let her know about my feelings or keep them quiet until she gets a little older. I am definitely not a weirdo. I don't usually like way younger girls. Tell me. Is this age difference taboo? Exactly how should I handle this situation?
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    Oct 19, 2011, 05:00 PM
    I know you are a good guy, but I hope for her sake you keep a distance, and let her have fun growing up. I think the crush will pass if you focus on healthier adult things.
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    Oct 19, 2011, 05:35 PM
    She is too young for you, This type of relationship will only lead to trouble at this point, Enjoy life and in 3 or 4 years perhaps you will cross paths with her again.
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    Oct 19, 2011, 06:10 PM
    You need to keep to yourself, she is definitely too young.
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