[magilljackie]

We got together , I dident know he had issues from his past big ones , I heard and bought those issues up, he baked off and has had couciling , we still txt but I still love him and want him bak

[Cat1864]

One of the better ways to let an ex go and give yourself time to heal is to not have any contact with the person. Stopping all contact will also aid in ending your confusion.

When a person stays in contact with an ex, the person is keeping a small spark of hope alive that everything will work out and the ex will be his/hers again. Each time you text him or read one of his texts you are feeding that spark and keeping it alive.

Even if you were to get back together, I would still suggest letting go of the previous relationship and moving forward. Date some other people and build up a good support system that isn't part of a romantic relationship. It will help keep any new (or re-newed) relationships from becoming rebounds.

One of the harder things in life to get used to is that loving someone isn't always enough. We can love someone with all of heart, but it doesn't mean we are supposed to be in a relationship with him/her.

Give yourself time and space to let him go. Maybe someday you can be friends with him, but now is not the time.