[Antoin]

My girlfriend dumped me 2 weeks ago. While it was only a 2 month relationship and only saw each other on weekends due to a 90 minutes distance, we connected so well and it was very passionate. We never had an argument or a problem (which is not always good) We were climbing the mountain, making our way to a truly loving relationship, having covered a lot of ground. She had met my family and I was to meet hers very soon.

I was at her place 2 weeks ago, and after spending a wonderful weekend together she ended it with me out of the blue. There were no tell tale signs. I didn't see it coming. I was in shock. Her reason was that she didn't like me as much as she did and couldn't see a future with me. I believe her when she says there's no other guy involved. I've never been in so much pain in my life. I'm already a depression sufferer, although she never really saw my sad side. As she always made me happy. So it went from phone calls and texts each day to absolutely nothing now.

This might seem weak, but I just can't see myself getting over her. Our relationship was built on positiveness and great times. We had plans and I can't stop thinking about her. The pain is simply too much, where I'm questioning the meaning of life. This has hit me hard! If the pain can go away, just might be able to focus on moving on.

Thank you for your time.

[vanheart]

All I can say is that when someone doesn't want you & breaks up.

Then walk away. With your head held high. Ideally go NC.

Its been only 2 months. You may have had other expectations.
But now, that's over. Be glad this didn't happen after 2 years.

I wouldn't press it any longer. Beg, try & get her back, be her pal, etc...

"So it went from phone calls and texts each day to absolutely nothing now"

Get the message? I did.

Don't talk to her, just move on.
Sorry, man. It sucks, I know.

Now, man-up, be the better person and start over. Like 2 months prior.
But better.

Don't let this ruin your fun.

[talaniman]

Its only been two weeks guy. Give it time and let family, friends, and activities that you enjoy help you through this.

Yeah break ups suck!! But it gets better.