[mm105829]

I don't know what to believe , my cousin came to live at my house for a while she has a 1 yr old girl and I babysat her because I'm a stay a home mom 2 weeks after she came to live with me she sent some texts to my husband about how grateful she is with us and she is asking my husband not to be too nice to her because she does not want to fall in love with him as soon as my husband gets home he tells me what's going on. I want to confront her but I feel bad because she is a single mom and has nobody so me.

My husband and I talk and we decide to let that go, well 3 months later I'm having surgery and while I'm getting surgery she calls him and tells him that she had a dream that they were doing it he responds maybe cause that's what you want to do.he never tells me about that and he continues to talk behind my back flirting and stuff while I was in my room recovering from my surgery and sleeping. They both went to her room and supposedly he tells me that he told her that nothing can happen between them that that needed to stop he admitted that all that was true and that he never slept with her and she also said the same thing.

She says that when they both went to the room is for him to ask her about the dream and she told me that he told her remember about the dream you had and she said yes well he said if you want we can do it but in another place not in the house.the point is they both claim they did not have sex but I don't know.

Can someone give me some advice? Should I believe him or not?

[Synnen]

You should be kicking her out, and you and your husband should be in counseling.

This is NOT going to get better as long as she lives with you.

BOTH of them crossed lines they shouldn't have, and those are the consequences of it.