[stephaniaa]

My boyfriend dumped me 1 month ago. At first I felt desperate, but after a while I moved on.. after 1 month he called me and told me he missed me so much and wanted to see me and he really insisted. He said he was very sorry for what he told me when we were fighting at that time. But the thing is he told me let's be friends. But I cannot be his friend while I had a romantic relationship with him... When he says let's be friends, does he use it as a hint to get back together? I really love him, what should I do?

[DaniCalifornia]

I think you should be honest and say that with the way you felt about him, you can't really cope with a friendship and it'd be better to go your separate ways.

X Dani

[Tamsyn]

I agree with Dani, maybe in a few years friendship will be possible. But for now, especially if you feel you've been moving on, best to leave it that way.

and remember, it's at the end you overly romanticise the beginning ^_^

[talaniman]

Accept his apology, and still move on with your life. Trying to be friends before you are ready would be a disaster you don't need.

[vanheart]

Stick with NC.

Then you won't have those worries.

"I cannot be his friend while I had a romantic relationship with him"

I agree.

Remember this:
"My boyfriend dumped me"

[vanheart]

Stick with NC.

Then you won't have those worries.

"I cannot be his friend while I had a romantic relationship with him"

I agree.

Remember this:
"My boyfriend dumped me"