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    Oct 11, 2011, 01:27 AM
    My LDR boyfriend doesn't trust me
    My boyfriend and I were together over a year before we separated and went to different colleges. We've been apart for over a year now and I'm not sure how to handle his lack of trust or communication.
    Since we've been apart his lack of trust has been more and more obvious. We continually text throughout the day, primarily so knows exactly what I'm doing and who I'm with. At the end of every day he asks who I've talked to through texts, Facebook and in person, even though he has my Facebook.and my email password.
    It seems that everything I do makes him angry. He gets angry for me going to lunch with a group of friends or for spelling a text wrong(because it shows I'm not paying attention to him). And when he's angry he tells me that he doesn't want to talk to me. Then he won't text or call me except to tell me he's going to bed or whatever. This can go on for days at a time.
    I really do love him, but it almost seems impossible to keep him happy. I can't get him to talk to me about his feelings before or after he gets angry. Sometimes it seems like he has mood swings out of nowhere and there's nothing I can do to help.
    I need advice on how to talk to him or what actions to take. Please help
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    Oct 11, 2011, 03:44 AM
    Im not sure how it all went before, but..

    Together, or apart. Do you really want each other? Really? Seriously?

    Enough to not really talk, go LD, make a plan.

    How trust is everything. Whether you are side by side or far away.

    What was the plan anyway?

    We all make decisions. Where to go, who to be with.







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