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I met this man online. We would chat endlessly. We exchanged numbers. The calls started coming in and then the frequency went up. I fell for him so bad that I moved to his city. After we hung out for a few times, he told me his real age. And what shocked me the most was that he was married. It was as though my world came crashing down. Then he gave me details about how his love life is deserted. I felt really bad for him and for some reason I don't know, I started showering him with more love and affection. I'm madly, deeply in love with him. I even gave my virginity to him. Now his wife is going to have a baby (not naturally - they allegedly don't have sex). I think things will change drastically. I love him a lot to lose him but at the same time I don't want to wreck a house. What should I do?

[Fr_Chuck]

Oh yea, wife having baby, can't leave her, and yea he is not having sex with her.

These are called lies, and he is a pro at this, I bet he has 3 or 4 other girls like you he is doing the same with online for back ups.
And of course what a catch, even if he came to you, he can cheat so easy, he would be cheating on you soon.

You break this off, he wanted to hook you, he lied at first to hook you and fall in love, this is famous ploys of con people looking for sex with women.

So either, he really is not married and uses a idea of a wife to keep free of having to move in and be responsible.
But most likely he is just cheating on a wife, goes homes has sex with her and tells her how much he loves her too.

So break it off, if he really, really loved you, he would leave his wife and be with you, no matter what, pregnant, kids, anything does not stop a person who is really in love