[anonydee]

Me and my sons father had split about three months ago. We had a very strong/supporting/loving/trusting relationship, till I cheated and for some reason I stopped trusting him. I didn't want him hanging out with other girls because I didn't trust him, but the truth is what I did I knew was wrong, I haven't told him and still didn't. But maybe a week after I cheated, he broke up with me and start talking to some one else. That girl got to controlling not he don't know what to do so he stopped speaking to her all together. I still am in-love with my sons father. I know I messed up. My sons father don't know what he should do between us because he still has feeling with that other girl. I'm scared to tell him what I did because I don't want to push him away. All I want us to be is a family of one again. Help?.

[stormiejo]

The reason you stopped trusting him is because of what you did your ridden with guilt and until you can bring self to tell him what happened your going to continue to be eaten with it I know your scared your going to push him away but its what broke you up in the first place it is making you paranoid and until you can come clean you will never know what will happen it may bring you guys back to the point you were with some time and some counciling or it may not but its worth the chance and then its also something you don't have to live with for the rest of your life

[Homegirl 50]

You need to come clean with him if he comes back to you.
You didn't trust him because you could not be trusted. Maybe he was cheating on you with her, could be both of you need to come clean.
You will feel better if you do no matter what happens afterward.

[talaniman]

Hard to have anything healthy without honesty, truth, and trust. Either be honest with him, or leave him alone. You both need to be honest with each other.