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    Oct 2, 2011, 07:07 AM
    Long distance relationship
    We are in a long distance relationship now, yesterday my girlfriend texted one of my close friends and ask him if they were having "an after party" and that she wanted to hang out with them. He replied by saying yes! So she went out drinking with my friends and the guy she texted told me that she was here and she's drinking/drunk and chatting with another friend. I then texted her and asked what she was doing. She replied by saying that she was hanging out with one of her girlfriends "She lied". I was like oh okay have fun and take care of yourself. I don't know what I am supposed to do now. What should I tell her when she wake up tomorrow?. Apparently She didn't cheat on me yet with that guy, because my close friend made sure that she went home alone. What I don't really get is if she wants to cheat or play around why would she go to "MY FRIENDS" not her American friends. "I'm not American by the way" I mean I would not know if she cheated on me if she did it with one of her American friends.. Why my friends?. She on the other hand texts me a lot everyday saying that she loves and misses me...

    From the Past:

    - I once found out that she was private messaging with her ex boyfriend on Facebook. She told me that she was sorry and I saw the whole conversation she messaged him because she had a dream about him

    - She acts so weird when she's drunk and talks nonsense
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    Oct 2, 2011, 10:14 AM
    Maybe she doesn't WANT to cheat, just party, and get drunk, and what safer place to do it than with YOUR friends?

    I would be a lot more worried about the drinking than the cheating. Being young in America, can be a normal thing to party, and get drunk but the key to any relationship, long distance, or otherwise, is honest communications, and not using friends for spies, or girlfriend watchers.
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    Oct 2, 2011, 01:36 PM
    The only thing you can do right now is trust her & communicate. Especially LD.

    You will find out soon enough if she is as invested as you are.

    If you stay paranoid & keep spying, conjuring up stories, she's going to run for the hills.
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