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k7a7t7y7 · Sep 23, 2011, 07:44 PM

Was on hol met this couple in same hotel having drinks with them then I ask if they smoked weed, we had 1 rolled but dident no my partner left it back in room so he invited them back for a smoke, this guy had a bad reaction an was out of it he fell of his seat on the floor his wife was saying your inbarising me get up an he's got the key in his pocket, she kept saying it like as if she wanted one of us to get it, in the end she said was going to reception to get one, I panicked an said to my partna I better go an stop her just in case she tells them about the weed, before this me an my ex now tried to get this guy on his feet to go home he was out of it, I went after her saying don't go get the key off him an take him home but she went, I went back in the room to the balcony where I left them, I was gone 1-3 min at the most I c my ex behind this guy the guy bent over they still had clouths on my ex had his hands on the guys sides, I was in shock went back in side after saying something like about him going to **** a guy, come back out an my ex had his back an hands to the belcony an he said thought you went to recepchion an he had a big look of gilt on his face, the other guy was standing up saying nothing his head was bowd, I kicked him out he seemed to have sobered up a lot, my ex was saying nothing just sat on sofa quiet. He won't admite he was about to get it on with a guy saying he can't remember what happened he was off it, but no matter how much somones drunk an stoned they would never go to **** a guy if they were straite, the way he reactied an never said a thing, the look of his gilt he never denide it until about an hour later.
The next day he was saying he can't remember never once said sorry an was happy to go along with a story about him kissing a girl as for why we split, why would he go along with a lie, not fraek out on me or get angry for calling him guy, just let me keep on at him that night he never said he never did it. Wasnet till the 2nd morning when he asked if we could try agen. Do you think he's gay?

Synnen · Sep 24, 2011, 09:14 AM

I think it doesn't matter if he's gay, because you'll never trust him again anyway.

Do not get back together, and just put this behind you.

martinizing2 · Sep 24, 2011, 09:21 AM

Originally Posted by Synnen

I think it doesn't matter if he's gay, because you'll never trust him again anyway.

Do not get back together, and just put this behind you.

I may have worded that differently Syn. Just saying

k7a7t7y7 · Sep 24, 2011, 12:41 PM

He is staying my ex but how do I get over it, we had been trying for a baby for 2 years I've been having tests to c if I can have kids, had a letter the other day saying I'm not ovulating, so not only as he destroyed my life the nhs will not help a single woman to get pregnant he would have made a great dad an we were getting married its all gone.

Synnen · Sep 25, 2011, 08:33 AM

Honey--a single woman has a MUCH harder time raising children than a stable couple anyway. Would you have really wanted to live a lie?

I know the pain of infertility. You should talk to your doctor to find out if there are other health reasons for not ovulating, though--ovarian cysts are painful and often need to be removed, and there are other medical reasons that CAN be treated rather than focusing on the infertility.

You should also see a counselor to deal with all of this. You don't want to live a lie with a jerk, but you need to come to terms with the end of this relationship and what it means for you and becoming pregnant and the whole bowl of soup.

Remember, too, that there are other options than just giving birth if you want to be a mother. There are thousands of kids out there who need a parent to adopt them and give them love.