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    #61

    Sep 19, 2011, 11:53 AM
    Yeah I kind of noticed that to, its like she is expecting me to be miserable forever and lonely and begging her to come back but I haven't done any of those things, no matter what says via text or phone call. I just try my best to keep my emotions intact and act like everything thing is okay
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    #62

    Sep 19, 2011, 12:08 PM
    If you keep ignoring her and her games, I think someday fairly soon you will realize it isn't an act. You really are happy and life is great.
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    #63

    Sep 20, 2011, 02:22 PM
    Hey update: my Ex Last night sent me some X-Rated pics and called me in the middle of the night. She was begging for me to come over her house and have sex with her, and even though I really wanted to I didn't, and it felt a little good denying her. Any Feedback?
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    #64

    Sep 20, 2011, 02:29 PM
    I thought you were going NC?

    Ignore her. Better yet, block her.
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    #65

    Sep 20, 2011, 03:08 PM
    Way to go, avoiding more BS, now ignore the texts.
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    #66

    Sep 20, 2011, 05:23 PM
    You did good.
    Keep it up.

    My ex tried to bait me too, & it wasn't fun. Only gave me anxiety.
    I ended up blocking her from all communication.

    Hope you are seeing that she is using all she has to get a response.

    You see, now that she has lost the power over you, she is desperate.

    Not to get you back, mind you, just to know that she can manipulate.

    Remove the problem & drama once & for all (her), & concentrate on everything else.

    She's yesterday's news.
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    #67

    Sep 27, 2011, 01:10 PM
    Hey update guy I talked to my ex girlfriend for while about a week ago and in the middle of the conversation she blurts Out "I miss You" and I haven't heard her say that for a while what is going thorough her head? Also she personally invited me to her birthday party why is that and should I attend it?
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    #68

    Sep 27, 2011, 01:37 PM
    She was just being friendly, and cordial, and was figuring you were over it and ready to be JUST friends. ARE YOU? If you are not, then send a card and don't go if you can't handle JUST FRIENDS.

    If she can't hug and kiss another without your heart breaking stay home. If this will tear your world apart and reduce you to a self pitying pile of pooh, stay home.
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    #69

    Sep 27, 2011, 03:06 PM
    @talaniman I'm definitely taking your advice!! Because to make matters worse my birthday is one day after hers and I'm using to spending our birthday as a couple. But which we obviously aren't anymore which is going to make me feel really awkward.
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    #70

    Sep 28, 2011, 03:19 PM
    Happy Birthday.
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    #71

    Sep 29, 2011, 05:54 AM
    @vanheart thank you for the birthday wish
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    Sep 29, 2011, 11:44 AM
    I hope you enjoy your first birthday as the real you.

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