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    BrokenDrgn Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 14, 2011, 10:43 PM
    Why did my ex girlfriend contact my new girlfriend?
    Ok here is my story, my ex girlfriend broke up with me over 7 months ago and it's been really hard for me to forget and move on but since my ex girlfriend never replied and ignore me, well I finally gave up hope of getting her back. It's a long distance relationship and we never met it was this year we suppose to but since we broke up we never did. I'm still in love with my ex, I don't hate her even though she has told all her friends I'm crazy, stalker and that she told everyone who knew us that she wouldn't acknowledge or talk to me again.

    It hurt me but I finally woke up one day and just go on with my life and I have been and I met someone she's really the great girl and we hit it off and I really like this girl a lot but I told her where I am emotionally and that I don't want her to be a rebound girl so we're taking it slow and well we've been together for over a month now and I never been happier.

    Anyway my new girl knows about my ex and what happen and she's really nice and supportive but last weekend my ex girl friend contacted my new girlfriend and from what my girlfriend said in a subtle way if we're together and of course my girl said yes and my ex girl friend told her I feel sorry for you, and then my girl told my ex practically where to go, and my ex replied it takes a lot of guts.

    I have stop contacting my ex for nearly 2 months now and I don't understand why she would contact my girl for. I've never got hold of my ex when this exchange happen I figure that's what she wants me to do but as I said I'm trying to move on and my ex made it clear she wants nothing to do with me at all. I trust my girl that she took care of it but why does my ex want to cause trouble with me and my new girl, I thought my ex with be happy I left her alone already.

    Anyway I guess I'm just curious to why my ex is bothering me know after all this time she never bothered about talking to me. Does my ex has the intention of breaking me and my girl up or she just want me to suffer?
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    Sep 15, 2011, 05:30 PM
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    I know you didn't expect this drama queen to stop being a drama queen did you? The new girl handled it so don't dwell. Don't even be curious. She is who she is, so be grateful you aren't with her.

    I know you are, and she just wanted your attention, so give her nothing, not even a thought.
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    Sep 15, 2011, 09:01 PM
    NC, Don't respond.
    Stay out of their drama. What the heck, anyway? Weird.

    You are long gone now. Be invisible to them.
    Concentrate on the new girl.



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    Sep 16, 2011, 08:14 AM
    A lot of reasons come to mind... childishness, jealousy, insecurity, being manipulative. etc... None of them are worth a call back, or another second of your time.
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    Sep 16, 2011, 05:37 PM
    Thanks to all the replies and I really feel I did the right thing and well I know I got a perfect girl right now I'm not trying to compare her to my ex but my girl well she's definitely an upgrade, our relationship was made from a good foundation of Trust, communication, compassion, honesty and loyalty. I'm so happy being with her that my life is going so good and everyone can see how I went from being a depress person to a happy one. I know I have it good with my new girl for me she is a heaven sent :D

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